بخش دوم: رفتارهایی که باید یاد بگیرید

PART II

BEHAVIORS TO ADOPT

be·hav·ior

noun

1)the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, especially toward others.

“good behavior”

2)the way in which an animal or person acts in response to a particular situation or stimulus.

synonyms: conduct, deportment, bearing, actions, doings

Your behaviors are the way you act day in and day out. Your behaviors are your habits. They manifest in the actions you take, the words you say, and the way you live your life. What is most important to understand about your behaviors is that they are a choice. They don’t feel like a choice because the vast majority of your behaviors are made without conscious thought. They’re habits that have ingrained themselves in your life, but they are choices we make, whether consciously or unconsciously. Which means every single day you choose to be this person . . . whether you realize it or not. You choose to believe what you believe and accept what you accept, and these behaviors can either help you immensely or harm you without you ever really knowing it. Now that we’ve let go of the many excuses that hinder us from pursuing our dreams, we need to take some steps toward them. This section is a list of the behaviors I adopted that helped me get to my goals, and I hope they’ll help you do the same.